come!
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Power Play
Getting turned on with your partner when you think you might get caught is super sexy, but see what happens when only he has access to the Off button. The next time you are out on the town, insert your remote-controlled egg or bullet and give him the switch. He gets all the control while you sit tight, waiting for that buzz of pleasure. As you spend your night out at a show, dinner, or huddled close at a packed bar, the anticipation of a little surprise ecstasy will get you both in a hot vibe. He can choose to start off slowly, with small spurts of light vibrations to have you inching your way to a mind-blowing orgasm. If he thinks you have been a little naughty, he can skip the foreplay and give you full power doses to have you climaxing at every pause in the conversation. Whether he takes the whole evening to get you worked up, or constantly throws you over the edge while you try to order your drinks, this will be one evening you will love to lose control!
Pleasure for Your Caboose
Butt Stuff Safety
Using toys for anal play can be a really fun and exciting experience for you and your partner, but there are a few rules to follow to make sure you have a safe and stress-free experience.
What Goes in Must Come Out
The most important rule for butt play is that you shouldn’t put anything in anyone’s ass unless you’re sure you can get it back out. Someone once said to me that “a vagina’s a cul-de-sac, but your ass is a freeway!” which is one of the strangest non-sequiturs I’ve ever heard but is also a helpful reminder that while the vagina is a closed system with no way for a toy to get “lost,” your ass is not, and a “lost” toy can create serious medical issues. To stay safe, only use toys that are sold explicitly for anal play, and make sure that your toys have a base that is thicker than the rest of the toy so that they cannot accidentally be inserted all the way.
No Sharp Edges
You shouldn’t have trouble with this if you follow the rules and only use toys intended for anal play, but it’s worth repeating: the skin inside your ass is sensitive and delicate, so make sure any toy you use is smooth and has no sharp edges.
Use Lube
Butts don’t make their own lube like vaginas sometimes do, so you’re going to need a good personal lubricant to enjoy yourself. Water-based lube is a good bet, since it’s the only kind safe for use with condoms and all sex toy materials. Using oil or other petroleum-based lubes (like petroleum jelly) can damage some toys and degrade condoms. This goes for natural oil lubes like coconut oil, as well.
Keep It Clean
It’s important to clean your toys before and after you use them to keep them squeaky clean, and this is especially true for anal toys, which can carry germs that can make you sick. The easiest way to keep toys clean is to use a condom: when you’re done you can just peel it off and you’re set! You can also use a female condom for this purpose, which works just as well to prevent mess, and may even be more comfortable, but they are also potentially less effective at preventing transmission of STDs, so if this is a concern for you, stick with the male condom.
Even if you are using a condom, you should clean your toys before and after play, with some soap and hot water. You should make sure your anal toys are made out of a nonporous material that is easily sterilized, like silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel. Stay away from jelly and rubber, which are much more difficult to keep clean.
It Shouldn’t Hurt
It is really important to remember when engaging in anal play that if it hurts, you are doing something wrong. Do not “tough it out,” and stay away from numbing lubes, because if it is hurting, you may be doing damage and the pain is there to tell you to stop what you are doing! If you take it slow, use plenty of lube, and stop whenever it becomes uncomfortable, you should have a good experience!
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Plug It
91
Power Play
Getting turned on with your partner when you think you might get caught is super sexy, but see what happens when only he has access to the Off button. The next time you are out on the town, insert your remote-controlled egg or bullet and give him the switch. He gets all the control while you sit tight, waiting for that buzz of pleasure. As you spend your night out at a show, dinner, or huddled close at a packed bar, the anticipation of a little surprise ecstasy will get you both in a hot vibe. He can choose to start off slowly, with small spurts of light vibrations to have you inching your way to a mind-blowing orgasm. If he thinks you have been a little naughty, he can skip the foreplay and give you full power doses to have you climaxing at every pause in the conversation. Whether he takes the whole evening to get you worked up, or constantly throws you over the edge while you try to order your drinks, this will be one evening you will love to lose control!
Pleasure for Your Caboose
Butt Stuff Safety
Using toys for anal play can be a really fun and exciting experience for you and your partner, but there are a few rules to follow to make sure you have a safe and stress-free experience.
What Goes in Must Come Out
The most important rule for butt play is that you shouldn’t put anything in anyone’s ass unless you’re sure you can get it back out. Someone once said to me that “a vagina’s a cul-de-sac, but your ass is a freeway!” which is one of the strangest non-sequiturs I’ve ever heard but is also a helpful reminder that while the vagina is a closed system with no way for a toy to get “lost,” your ass is not, and a “lost” toy can create serious medical issues. To stay safe, only use toys that are sold explicitly for anal play, and make sure that your toys have a base that is thicker than the rest of the toy so that they cannot accidentally be inserted all the way.
No Sharp Edges
You shouldn’t have trouble with this if you follow the rules and only use toys intended for anal play, but it’s worth repeating: the skin inside your ass is sensitive and delicate, so make sure any toy you use is smooth and has no sharp edges.
Use Lube
Butts don’t make their own lube like vaginas sometimes do, so you’re going to need a good personal lubricant to enjoy yourself. Water-based lube is a good bet, since it’s the only kind safe for use with condoms and all sex toy materials. Using oil or other petroleum-based lubes (like petroleum jelly) can damage some toys and degrade condoms. This goes for natural oil lubes like coconut oil, as well.
Keep It Clean
It’s important to clean your toys before and after you use them to keep them squeaky clean, and this is especially true for anal toys, which can carry germs that can make you sick. The easiest way to keep toys clean is to use a condom: when you’re done you can just peel it off and you’re set! You can also use a female condom for this purpose, which works just as well to prevent mess, and may even be more comfortable, but they are also potentially less effective at preventing transmission of STDs, so if this is a concern for you, stick with the male condom.
Even if you are using a condom, you should clean your toys before and after play, with some soap and hot water. You should make sure your anal toys are made out of a nonporous material that is easily sterilized, like silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel. Stay away from jelly and rubber, which are much more difficult to keep clean.
It Shouldn’t Hurt
It is really important to remember when engaging in anal play that if it hurts, you are doing something wrong. Do not “tough it out,” and stay away from numbing lubes, because if it is hurting, you may be doing damage and the pain is there to tell you to stop what you are doing! If you take it slow, use plenty of lube, and stop whenever it becomes uncomfortable, you should have a good experience!
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Plug It
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