he was in the bedroom and could not be disturbed.
I knocked and without waiting for an answer barged in. I introduced myself to a pudgy man in underwear curled into a fetal position on his bed. I sat down and asked him why he was crying.
He slowly rolled over and looked up. âDonât you read the papers?â
âSure,â I said. âI work for one.â
âDidnât you read about the four little girls who were murdered yesterday in a Birmingham church?â
âIt was terrible,â I said. âNow, about this book thing . . .â
But he had rolled onto his back and was talking to the ceiling. âHow can the white man be so evil to kill four little girls who werenât even demonstrating for their civil rights?â
He talked for hours, deep into the night, about the racial cancer destroying the nation and how most of the blame was on people who looked like me. You people stunt the lives of children and break up families, he said, you have the power to wound the innocent simply by calling them ânigger.â I took some notes because thatâs what I did, but I mostly wondered what I was doing there. This man was not the cool, slangy hipster I had seen on nightclub stages, the Chris RockâDave ChappelleâBill Cosby of his time whose humorous, rats-to-riches autobiography I was supposed to write.
The man on the bed, alternately blubbering and ranting about the Birmingham bombing, was not funny or particularly insightful, I thought at first, just angry. I resented his making me the stand-in for all hateful white men. But something kept me there, and the more I listened the more I was engaged. As disturbing as it was, it began to make sense. I wondered if we could find a common ground. I began to wonder how I would feel right now if I were black. Iâd never had a black friend. The only black person I knew was my parentsâ cleaning lady. Gregory was taking me somewhere I had never been. I was open, and he must have sensed it. When I finally got up to leave, he asked me to come back the next day so we could start writing the book.
It went badly. Greg was sometimes an hour or two late for an interview session, and when I complained, heâd say, âI can tell you been waitinâ, baby, you sound colored.â He always called me âbaby.â He didnât remember my name.
I began to envy the collaborators he had rejected. Once Greg and I started tape-recording, it got even worse, endless, unusable diatribes against white America. He had strong arguments and solid facts, but this was deadly speechifying, hardly the human stuff of autobiography.
I took it for about two weeks of sporadic sessions before or after his nightclub appearances and my Times assignments. One day, I waited three hours for him with a prepared monologue. I told him that I didnât need this jive job badly enough to put up with an irresponsible, selfish fool trying to hang me up in reverse prejudice. In fact, I declared pompously, the only thing I didnât have against him was his color.
I stood up, said good-bye, and marched out of his hotel room to the elevator. He followed me and got in. On the way down he said, âBob Lipsyte, right?â
âToo late,â I said.
He said he was going to have a sandwich at the hotel coffee shop. Would I join him?
While we ate, he kept repeating my name. When we finished, he said, âLetâs go back up. I think weâre ready to write a book. A real book, one theyâre not expecting.â
We went back up. The book that emerged was basically my editing of taped hours of emotional storytelling that my wife-to-be, Marjorie, transcribed when she got home from her Times job in the music department. She typed and cried, later laughed, along with Greg crying and laughing as he lay on his hotel bed like a patient in therapy. His stories were raw and unsentimental. The most poignant scenes for Margie and me were of
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