have covered all bases this person will soon back down and come to respect you and in light of the defeat you will notice him/her now starting to become quiet and waiting for your response as now him/her is starting to figure if they have lost this one on one conversational battle then you have or know something they don’t. They are now trying to learn. What have you gained? You have gained the most important thing in a conversation with a person of this caliber and that is his/her attention.
So preparation is another key to winning anyone over is business in love or in life in general. Prepare for the best and the worst.
LESSON 12.THE INTRODUCTION
This is the first phone call, speech or summary to set the pace for what you hope to be an exciting conversation. Remember this is also the most critical moment. This delicate breaking point determines your place and status in your new relationship/friendship.
The introduction or opening of a conversation is a precarious situation. The stability of the discussion depends heavily on your initial choice of words. How many times do we find ourselves second guessing or stressing ourselves about what we said wrong? We go over and over again in our minds wondering and battering ourselves thinking we may say the wrong things. We contemplate what might we should have said. Pondering thoughts like what is the right thing to say to keep an audience or a person wanting to hear more.
The true fact is you haven’t said anything wrong, you may have said it to the wrong person. Everything is interpreted differently by different people in different ways. Everyone’s mind operates in its own unique way. You have literally 60 seconds to read a person’s mind and body to determine what should be said. This technique is not easy. This technique can be perfected if practiced.
Think of any notable or excellent public speaker and watch them closely. You will notice how quickly they take in their audience, at that moment commence to speaking, and then completely control the conversation. Most public speakers choose to warm up their listeners first. They make them feel important enough to be acknowledged at the beginning then they suck up their time delivering their spiel.
An alpha male must do the same thing in his introduction. Appeal to her interest first, quickly direct the introduction from just you speaking to her speaking. Make it an interactive situation in the beginning this will buy you some time mid-way to complete your pitch.
The introduction is your only hope to success in a conversation. It is the key to the locked door. Beyond that door could be an immeasurable amount of treasure just waiting to be found. You will never find out, no matter how great of a person you are if you are not skilled in your opening statement. Introduce yourself correctly and the rest will fall in your lap.
LESSON 13. Consistency
Keep in mind you as the initial speaker or pursuer shouldn’t expect any reciprocation from your audience at the beginning stage. This matter still requires a great deal of sincerity and persistence. So don’t expect anything in return as of this moment, give it all out.
The greatest adversity for mankind in making our goals come to fruition is consistency or lack thereof.
Consistent action or unwavering relentless drive for what you choose to accomplish must be applied in order for that mathematical equation to total up to success. Most often we find ourselves stuck in a trance going from this to that, then right to left, forward and backward just to end up right where we started or even further behind.
Keep in mind that in order to finish the race let alone win you have to see it through until the end. The end is not at every obstacle on the contrary that obstacle is your only proof of the beginning. An alpha male
So preparation is another key to winning anyone over is business in love or in life in general. Prepare for the best and the worst.
LESSON 12.THE INTRODUCTION
This is the first phone call, speech or summary to set the pace for what you hope to be an exciting conversation. Remember this is also the most critical moment. This delicate breaking point determines your place and status in your new relationship/friendship.
The introduction or opening of a conversation is a precarious situation. The stability of the discussion depends heavily on your initial choice of words. How many times do we find ourselves second guessing or stressing ourselves about what we said wrong? We go over and over again in our minds wondering and battering ourselves thinking we may say the wrong things. We contemplate what might we should have said. Pondering thoughts like what is the right thing to say to keep an audience or a person wanting to hear more.
The true fact is you haven’t said anything wrong, you may have said it to the wrong person. Everything is interpreted differently by different people in different ways. Everyone’s mind operates in its own unique way. You have literally 60 seconds to read a person’s mind and body to determine what should be said. This technique is not easy. This technique can be perfected if practiced.
Think of any notable or excellent public speaker and watch them closely. You will notice how quickly they take in their audience, at that moment commence to speaking, and then completely control the conversation. Most public speakers choose to warm up their listeners first. They make them feel important enough to be acknowledged at the beginning then they suck up their time delivering their spiel.
An alpha male must do the same thing in his introduction. Appeal to her interest first, quickly direct the introduction from just you speaking to her speaking. Make it an interactive situation in the beginning this will buy you some time mid-way to complete your pitch.
The introduction is your only hope to success in a conversation. It is the key to the locked door. Beyond that door could be an immeasurable amount of treasure just waiting to be found. You will never find out, no matter how great of a person you are if you are not skilled in your opening statement. Introduce yourself correctly and the rest will fall in your lap.
LESSON 13. Consistency
Keep in mind you as the initial speaker or pursuer shouldn’t expect any reciprocation from your audience at the beginning stage. This matter still requires a great deal of sincerity and persistence. So don’t expect anything in return as of this moment, give it all out.
The greatest adversity for mankind in making our goals come to fruition is consistency or lack thereof.
Consistent action or unwavering relentless drive for what you choose to accomplish must be applied in order for that mathematical equation to total up to success. Most often we find ourselves stuck in a trance going from this to that, then right to left, forward and backward just to end up right where we started or even further behind.
Keep in mind that in order to finish the race let alone win you have to see it through until the end. The end is not at every obstacle on the contrary that obstacle is your only proof of the beginning. An alpha male
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