Cancerians are legendary for their ability to nurture people and projects, for they sense the needs of others on an emotional level. However, they need to remember that meeting their own emotional needs is just as important. Often, they must be able to nurture themselves, for they are so good at nurturing others that those other people forget that Cancerians, too, need similar attention.
Cancerians would do well to remember that while they may not be as strong as those around them think they are, they are certainly strong enough to do what has to be done to make their dreams come true. They must resist withdrawing into their shell if they start to feel insecure. Their usual courage, patience, and gentle energy are more than they need to make their life what they will.
Recognizing a Cancer
People who exhibit the physical characteristics distinctive of the sign of Cancer have expressive eyes, a round “moon-shaped” face, and soft skin. Every mood, emotion, and fleeting response shows in the changing features of the sensitive Cancerian face. Those born under this sign are usually top-heavy, and their arms and legs tend to be long in relation to the rest of their body. They can often be on the plump side, especially later in life.
Cancer's Typical Behavior and Personality Traits
is desirous of material comforts
is extremely clairvoyant
wears clothes that feel protective
is a bit shy (not a show-off)
is private about personal life
is wonderful with children
is introspective and emotional
possesses a shrewd business sense
enjoys good food and wine
is protective of friends and family
is patient and cautious with decisions
gets her feelings hurt easily
is dreamy, subtle, and intuitive
What Makes a Cancer Tick?
More than those born under any other sign, Cancerians are driven by feelings and intuition. Even though they are intelligent, practical people, they use their feelings as a sort of radar, and a great many of their decisions are based on this radar. While highly sensitive in the way they behave toward others, Cancerians are usually most sensitive when it comes to their own feelings. They are easily hurt by actions or attitudes that other signs are likely to dismiss. Hurt a Cancer and there is a chance that he will sulk.
The Cancer Personality Expressed Positively
Cancerians who possess high self-esteem and confidence may not seem much different from those who do not. But they, themselves, will certainly know the difference. The ability to sympathize with a friend's problems and still feel comfortable with their own success is a sign that Cancerians are able to balance their emotions, expressing their true nature in a positive way.
On a Positive Note
Cancers displaying the positive characteristics associated with their sign also tend to be:
savvy
kind
warm
compassionate
nurturing
thoughtful
caring and sensitive
introspective
intuitive
The Cancer Personality Expressed Negatively
Moodiness, sulkiness, and an unwillingness to be open with others about their problems are just a few ways in which Cancerians express their personality in a negative way. These characteristics may surface when they are feeling bad about themselves or unequal to what is expected of them. Cancerians who don't feel good about themselves may become secretive or even deceptive.
Negative Traits
Cancers displaying the negative characteristics associated with their sign also tend to be:
possessive
controlling
crabby
too easily hurt
sensitive to criticism
manipulative
overpowering
selfish
defensive
Ask a Cancer If...
Ask a Cancer if she'll listen if you want to share intimate feelings or events of a confidential nature but don't wish to be judged. Cancers pride themselves on being both empathetic and trustworthy and will listen to your problems or concerns with an open mind and an open heart. They also have the gift of giving counsel without lecturing, and will offer that service if you ask. If not, they will simply listen or provide a
Cancerians would do well to remember that while they may not be as strong as those around them think they are, they are certainly strong enough to do what has to be done to make their dreams come true. They must resist withdrawing into their shell if they start to feel insecure. Their usual courage, patience, and gentle energy are more than they need to make their life what they will.
Recognizing a Cancer
People who exhibit the physical characteristics distinctive of the sign of Cancer have expressive eyes, a round “moon-shaped” face, and soft skin. Every mood, emotion, and fleeting response shows in the changing features of the sensitive Cancerian face. Those born under this sign are usually top-heavy, and their arms and legs tend to be long in relation to the rest of their body. They can often be on the plump side, especially later in life.
Cancer's Typical Behavior and Personality Traits
is desirous of material comforts
is extremely clairvoyant
wears clothes that feel protective
is a bit shy (not a show-off)
is private about personal life
is wonderful with children
is introspective and emotional
possesses a shrewd business sense
enjoys good food and wine
is protective of friends and family
is patient and cautious with decisions
gets her feelings hurt easily
is dreamy, subtle, and intuitive
What Makes a Cancer Tick?
More than those born under any other sign, Cancerians are driven by feelings and intuition. Even though they are intelligent, practical people, they use their feelings as a sort of radar, and a great many of their decisions are based on this radar. While highly sensitive in the way they behave toward others, Cancerians are usually most sensitive when it comes to their own feelings. They are easily hurt by actions or attitudes that other signs are likely to dismiss. Hurt a Cancer and there is a chance that he will sulk.
The Cancer Personality Expressed Positively
Cancerians who possess high self-esteem and confidence may not seem much different from those who do not. But they, themselves, will certainly know the difference. The ability to sympathize with a friend's problems and still feel comfortable with their own success is a sign that Cancerians are able to balance their emotions, expressing their true nature in a positive way.
On a Positive Note
Cancers displaying the positive characteristics associated with their sign also tend to be:
savvy
kind
warm
compassionate
nurturing
thoughtful
caring and sensitive
introspective
intuitive
The Cancer Personality Expressed Negatively
Moodiness, sulkiness, and an unwillingness to be open with others about their problems are just a few ways in which Cancerians express their personality in a negative way. These characteristics may surface when they are feeling bad about themselves or unequal to what is expected of them. Cancerians who don't feel good about themselves may become secretive or even deceptive.
Negative Traits
Cancers displaying the negative characteristics associated with their sign also tend to be:
possessive
controlling
crabby
too easily hurt
sensitive to criticism
manipulative
overpowering
selfish
defensive
Ask a Cancer If...
Ask a Cancer if she'll listen if you want to share intimate feelings or events of a confidential nature but don't wish to be judged. Cancers pride themselves on being both empathetic and trustworthy and will listen to your problems or concerns with an open mind and an open heart. They also have the gift of giving counsel without lecturing, and will offer that service if you ask. If not, they will simply listen or provide a
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