same extensive support groups and backup organizations as Jewish children of survivors. There are many support groups and organizations for second generation survivors, but, from my experience, these groups are almost exclusively Jewish. So, non-Jewish children of survivors are again being forgotten -- just like their parents.
To some second generation children, it does not matter. Some feel no burden of being children of survivors. Some feel no desire to accept the legacy as a gift. This bequest is not for everyone. But, for those who accept the legacy of the Holocaust as a gift, I urge you to exploit this precious bequest. It is a part of your history too.
Do not let anyone deny that your parents, your grandparents or your family suffered. Remember that your parents and grandparents were also incarcerated, tortured, enslaved and murdered. Remember that your parents and grandparents fought valiantly with homemade weapons and utensils. Remember this important part of your history, not only to honor your forefathers, but also for your children's sake. One day it will be your turn to pass the legacy on to them.
Afterword
Immediately after publishing my website, www.holocaustforgotten.com, in February 1997, I began receiving emails, letters, books and manuscripts from non-Jewish survivors and their families who wanted to share their personal stories. I was surprised at the volume of correspondence - but I was completely overwhelmed by the force of their feelings.
Curiously, only a few survivors contacted me. Some showed me their scars and tattooed arms. Others pulled out musty photographs and hand-written diaries. Most of those who wrote to me were children of non-Jewish Holocaust survivors. It was the second and third generation that responded with a strong desire to share their family's story.