discover how exciting it is to know other people’s intimate details.
Pornography. Have you always heard that pornography is for men? For women, seeing how many partners are exchanged continuously, while having oral sex or masturbating at the same time, is something they find unpleasant . . . or at least, so they say. Have you really tried watching a pornographic movie on an early Saturday morning? Men do it without shame. They even gather in bars to see it while bursting into laughter from excitement . . . and from impotence. We are more refined, more sensitive, and we do not like to express our desires in such a vile way. But that does not mean that we do not get aroused! The visual stimulus is perhaps most powerful when it comes to increasing excitement, and with it the achievement of an orgasm, so why not try it? Forget any prejudices. Do not think of it as a “guy thing.” I assure you that if you relax and put yourself in front of the screen with a willing mind, your engine will get going in no time, and you will not be able to avoid touching yourself until you have an orgasm. They do it, so why shouldn’t we?
If your partner agrees, you can try making love while watching a pornographic film. Does that seem too bold for you? For most men, even if they say otherwise, a daring woman is irresistible. Can you imagine the amount of possibilities that will open up to you both? You could even make your own porn. It is not about recording it in a video, but to act as if you were doing so. Place the video camera so that it focuses on the bed, and have the television in front so that you can watch it. Light up the scene properly and begin to act as if you were in one of those movies. You could be lying there, acting as if you do not want anything. He comes into the room. You did not expect him, but it gives you a lot of joy to see him, and you show it by giving him a hug and a kiss. Then you go on to better things, and he will start to slowly undress you. The camera records it, and you watch it on the screen . . . I leave the rest up to you, but I assure you that Sharon Stone would pale with envy.
TASTE
The mouth is an orifice that serves as an inlet and outlet for our bodies. Through it we bring in food, liquid, and pleasure. If you close your eyes and go over your body, not to mention the genitals, with vanilla ice cream, or some peach jam, for example, your partner’s exploration of your body with his tongue will be much more exciting and will bring you closer to having an orgasm.
Sounds. All senses play a role in sexual arousal and pleasure. I remember a song that I heard often when I was a teenager. It was called Je t’aime, moi non plus, and in the background I could hear the moans of a couple making love until they had an orgasm. Every time I heard it at a party, I had to run to the bathroom! Get a recording in which you hear something similar. And if that is not easy for you to get, set up a recorder the next time you make love with your partner or you have an orgasm by yourself. Keep it in a safe place, because if you are bored one afternoon and you do not get aroused, just relax a little and start playing the recording. Its effects are powerful!
Guys, this is what we like!
This chapter is for the guys. They are so convinced of their skills! They talk about their “exploits” like supermen. And yet they can be so wrong sometimes! They touch our breasts as if they were squeezing lemons, or tighten them so much that we are almost unable to breathe. Let us give them a hand. We are going to tell our secrets, what we like to do, and how we like to do it. Of course, we are not all the same, and some of us like some things more than others, but I am sure that all women would support the tips I am going to give here. It is all so simple in the end!
S OME MISCONCEPTIONS
Men, when you get together in a pub, there are two topics of conversation: football and women. If an alien looked in on your gatherings, he would
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