vagina and pressed upward with her hips. Without any hesitation, he quickly rolled her over on top of him and pressed her into a sitting position. With one motion, he lifted her and set her down on his immense penis.
She kicked off her shoes and pressed her stockinged legs against his sides. She used Paul’s flanks to stroke the insides of her thighs through the silky nylon.
She alternately lifted her hips and then ground them against Paul as he thrust upward into her over and over. His fingers dug into the flesh at her waist and he pressed her more tightly onto his cock.
“It’s so good,” she cried. “You feel so good inside of me.”
He could feel her lacy garter belt under his fingers. “God, I’m going to come deep inside of you,” he screamed, and he poured his semen inside of her.
With a sigh, she collapsed on top of him and wrapped her arms around his heaving chest. She placed her cheek against his nipples and listened as his heart pounded.
They slept pressed tightly together. When they woke the next morning, Tracy remembered that she still had her stockings and garter belt on. As she started to get up to remove them, Paul said simply, “Not yet, my little stripper.”
They didn’t get up for another hour.
4
FIRST TIMES
I’ ve discussed some ways to introduce new sexual activities. Now the question becomes “Like what?” I’ve already mentioned a few. Maggie discovered the power of lingerie and Dave and Judy found that control was a key to their excitement. Are there things for everyone? I think so.
Until recently, it was believed that men and women had different and frequently incompatible sexual needs. Mother told daughter and the media reinforced the myth. As a child, I was told that men have a physical drive that makes them want, indeed need, sex more often than women. A woman must never deny her husband his “marital rights.” If you’re not in the mood, oh well. Make the best of it and pretend to enjoy yourself so you won’t wound his delicate male ego. It may not have ever been spelled out in exactly those words, but the message was clear nonetheless.
The message in the fifties, when I was a teenager, was that while men do need variation in their sexual encounters, that’s what prostitutes and “other women” are for. Foreplay was not enjoyable in and of itself. It was a means to an end, a way to excite one or both partners so intercourse would not be too odious. Wives were supposed to be vessels, repositories for the seed of their husbands, and content with the missionary position. Many men never saw their wives naked. Lovemaking took place with all the lights off and with the wife’s nightclothes still on. Then the men went out and had fun elsewhere.
At least men were taught that sex was fun!
Now, fortunately, it is more commonly understood that women have sexual needs and desires, too. They have erotic fantasies and their own type of wet dreams. They masturbate and have enjoyable orgasms. Women can and should enjoy sex, too, in all its infinite varieties. Sex is to be shared, enjoyed mutually by both partners. Sex is fun for both participants. Hooray for enlightenment!
It’s all right to want whatever you want and that includes games that are out of the sexual mainstream. Once you accept that what you want is all right, you have to communicate these new ideas with your partner.
Sexual creativity is a most important ingredient in a long-term, full-time relationship. I used to think that the perfect sexual partner was someone with infinite creativity. I hoped that there was someone out there who could enjoy the same pleasures that I enjoy. I also foolishly thought that he would be able to divine what I wished and do it just right. I never considered how he would know all this; I just knew that, when I found him, he would.
I was wrong. The perfect partner is one with whom you can communicate. One to whom you can suggest activities that you might like to try. One who can
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