sense a slight burning (but in a good way), a light tickle, discomfort, nothing at all, or, of course, pleasure.
The urge. It’s also normal to feel like you have to pee when pressure is applied to your G-spot (you are pressing on the urethra). Relax—you won’t pee—it’s a feeling that’ll turn to pure pleasure very soon. For greater comfort, empty your bladder beforehand.
The assist. When your lover finally finds your G-spot, you’ll know. So let him know! A simple, “Oh yeah, right there!” or “Back up, YESSSS!” oughta do it.
The retry. Discomfort? Pain? Then say so! Is he pushing too hard or at a wrong angle? Tell him to lighten up or vary his approach. Still uncomfortable? Have him withdraw and start over a few moments later—often that helps a lot.
The takeover. Is he not finding your groove? Then take control. Try Cowgirl, angling yourself for a G-spot jackpot. Or try Doggystyle, tilt and tuck your pelvis back into him till you find your perfect orgasmic fit.
The prize. Once he’s found your spot, build to your orgasm by squeezing and holding your PC muscles the entire time
Dr. Sadie Sez: Master Your OWN G-spot!
Who says you need a partner to locate and pleasure your G-spot? Why not treat yourself to a G-spot toy, designed to seek out and satisfy. You can find them in different styles and colors online, or at a sextoy store. Go ahead and splurge. You deserve it!
he’s stroking you. Add in clitoral stimulation with a fingertip or vibrator, focusing only on the pleasure, and feel your passions rise.
The Surprise Of The Liquid Orgasm
As it turns out, men aren’t the only humans blessed with the ability to ejaculate.
Women, too, can spout naturally during orgasm, especially a powerful G-spot orgasm.
If you experience “female ejaculations,” they’re nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, they’re something to be proud of. Your lover may be very turned-on by your liquid orgasms, too.
Contrary to what many people think, this liquid is not urine. It comes from specialized glands that surround the urethra—and is surprisingly similar to the fluid produced by the male prostate. Here’s what to expect: at the moment of liquid orgasm, the woman’s ejaculate either dribbles slowly or spurts wildly out of the urethra. Its color may be clear or milky, its texture is thin like water, and it may taste slightly sweet, a bit tart, or even have no taste at all. In fact, the major difference between male and female ejaculate is that hers has no sperm.
A woman’s liquid orgasm feels good too, like adding an indescribable heated oomph to an already powerful climax. Whether you’re graced with the ability to create liquid orgasms, or you begin ejaculating when you experiment with G-spot orgasms, don’t be shy—let it fly! And save yourselves the clean-up by spreading out a large towel before the waterworks begin!
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Blackdoor Boogaloo
Yup, it’s exactly what you think it is. Anal sex.
If those two little words send a shiver down your spine (and not the thrilling kind), you might want to read the next paragraph twice.
When you discover the safe, savvy way to enjoy anal sex, you can awaken a deep romantic connection with your lover, as well as eye-popping, spine-tingling, full-body orgasms beyond your wildest imagination.
Yet, anal sex is an acquired taste. Few women enjoy it the first time, mostly due to poor preparation and heat-of-the-moment partner-pressure. This often results in unnecessary discomfort and pain that makes one wonder why anyone would ever do it, let alone enjoy it.
But if you start off with good information, preparation and communication, anal sex can become one of life’s most deeply erotic adventures—one that many more heterosexual couples privately rave about today more than ever before.
“Yes, but…”
Hesitant? Curious? Eager? Then please read on. Talk about it with your lover. See if it sets your hearts racing. And you too may soon switch your position
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