You will use emotional intimacy.
Women are emotional creatures. Women love nothing more than being emotionally close to her man.
Emotional intimacy is the incentive.
You will say to her: “Oh Baby, it makes me feel so close to you when you feel this pleasure that I am giving you. The more pleasure you feel, the closer it makes me feel to you.”
She will follow your commands to accept the pleasure because she wants you to feel even closer to her.
Researchers at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands have used brain scans of women to show that the areas of the brain involved in fear and anxiety are deactivated during orgasm. This comes as no surprise to us. It is a requirement for orgasm. She must feel safe, and she must feel reassurance in order to have an orgasm.
Most women who have not yet had an orgasm are women who are unable to surrender to the pleasure that they are feeling in their body. That could be due to a number of reasons, but it usually goes back to some fear or anxiety around sexuality. So you must make it such that she continues to feel safe and reassured with you.
Even before she gets to the point of feeling any fear or anxiety, you must make her feel safe and assured. Say to her: “Baby, I love giving you pleasure. I feel so close to you. I am here for you Baby. I am here for you to feel safe with me. Feel reassured that I am here for you Baby.”
Then continue the stimulation.
As she starts getting close, she will start feeling a loss of control. This can be very scary to a woman who has not yet had an orgasm. You must distract her from her own concerns about the intense pleasure that she is feeling that is making her feel a loss of control. You do this by giving her a task to perform.
Give her the task of pleasing you.
Say to her: “Baby, it pleases me when you feel the pleasure I am giving you. The more pleasure you feel, the more it pleases me.”
Now you set up for the final drive.
Say to her: “Do you feel safe with me Baby?” She will say yes. Then say: “Do you trust me Baby?” She will say yes.
Now go for it. Continue the stimulation firmly. “Now I want you to surrender to me Baby. I want you to surrender completely to the pleasure I am giving you Baby. Surrender to me completely. Give yourself over to me completely Baby!”
Since she has fear and anxiety about surrendering to pleasure of her own body,
Have her surrender to YOU!
Take on the responsibility. As she feels more pleasure, continue to remind her to surrender to you.
If she does as you instruct, she will continue to orgasm.
After her orgasm subsides and she settles back down, hold her close and say: “Baby, I feel so close to you. I just cannot hold you close enough.” This is her reward for following your commands.
Do not mention anything about orgasms unless she does. If she does, go ahead and discuss it with her.
Once she has her first deep spot induced vaginal orgasm, use subsequent evenings in the bedroom to rub less of her deep spot and more of the rest of her vagina, such as her G spot, or the back wall of her vagina. This awakens her vagina even more.
Once she has a vaginal orgasm, it is very easy to give her a clitoral orgasm. Use the welcomed method the first time, as most likely no man has ever done that to her before.
Now you are ready to give her an orgasm in intercourse.
On that night, spend the evening making her feel very special. Make sure the emotional intimacy is very strong. Then in bed, get her really close with clitoral stimulation. But before she comes, move to deep spot stimulation. Bring her up close to an orgasm again, and stop before she has an orgasm. Now she is very close and ready. Put on a condom, which signals to her that you are preparing to have intercourse, and then with her consent you have intercourse.
The first time a woman has an orgasm in intercourse is a very powerful emotional experience for her. After she has an orgasm in intercourse, she may even weep
Women are emotional creatures. Women love nothing more than being emotionally close to her man.
Emotional intimacy is the incentive.
You will say to her: “Oh Baby, it makes me feel so close to you when you feel this pleasure that I am giving you. The more pleasure you feel, the closer it makes me feel to you.”
She will follow your commands to accept the pleasure because she wants you to feel even closer to her.
Researchers at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands have used brain scans of women to show that the areas of the brain involved in fear and anxiety are deactivated during orgasm. This comes as no surprise to us. It is a requirement for orgasm. She must feel safe, and she must feel reassurance in order to have an orgasm.
Most women who have not yet had an orgasm are women who are unable to surrender to the pleasure that they are feeling in their body. That could be due to a number of reasons, but it usually goes back to some fear or anxiety around sexuality. So you must make it such that she continues to feel safe and reassured with you.
Even before she gets to the point of feeling any fear or anxiety, you must make her feel safe and assured. Say to her: “Baby, I love giving you pleasure. I feel so close to you. I am here for you Baby. I am here for you to feel safe with me. Feel reassured that I am here for you Baby.”
Then continue the stimulation.
As she starts getting close, she will start feeling a loss of control. This can be very scary to a woman who has not yet had an orgasm. You must distract her from her own concerns about the intense pleasure that she is feeling that is making her feel a loss of control. You do this by giving her a task to perform.
Give her the task of pleasing you.
Say to her: “Baby, it pleases me when you feel the pleasure I am giving you. The more pleasure you feel, the more it pleases me.”
Now you set up for the final drive.
Say to her: “Do you feel safe with me Baby?” She will say yes. Then say: “Do you trust me Baby?” She will say yes.
Now go for it. Continue the stimulation firmly. “Now I want you to surrender to me Baby. I want you to surrender completely to the pleasure I am giving you Baby. Surrender to me completely. Give yourself over to me completely Baby!”
Since she has fear and anxiety about surrendering to pleasure of her own body,
Have her surrender to YOU!
Take on the responsibility. As she feels more pleasure, continue to remind her to surrender to you.
If she does as you instruct, she will continue to orgasm.
After her orgasm subsides and she settles back down, hold her close and say: “Baby, I feel so close to you. I just cannot hold you close enough.” This is her reward for following your commands.
Do not mention anything about orgasms unless she does. If she does, go ahead and discuss it with her.
Once she has her first deep spot induced vaginal orgasm, use subsequent evenings in the bedroom to rub less of her deep spot and more of the rest of her vagina, such as her G spot, or the back wall of her vagina. This awakens her vagina even more.
Once she has a vaginal orgasm, it is very easy to give her a clitoral orgasm. Use the welcomed method the first time, as most likely no man has ever done that to her before.
Now you are ready to give her an orgasm in intercourse.
On that night, spend the evening making her feel very special. Make sure the emotional intimacy is very strong. Then in bed, get her really close with clitoral stimulation. But before she comes, move to deep spot stimulation. Bring her up close to an orgasm again, and stop before she has an orgasm. Now she is very close and ready. Put on a condom, which signals to her that you are preparing to have intercourse, and then with her consent you have intercourse.
The first time a woman has an orgasm in intercourse is a very powerful emotional experience for her. After she has an orgasm in intercourse, she may even weep
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