an orgasm. If you have the guts to use hypnosis, then get David Shade's Manual .
Intercourse
There are three main positions for intercourse: “missionary,” “doggy style,” and “woman on top.”
In Missionary, the woman lies on her back, and the man lies on top of her facing her. Missionary is good for intimacy. It is the best to start with.
In doggy style, the woman is on her hands and knees, and the man is on his knees behind her. Doggy style is good because it is animalistic.
In woman on top, the man lies on his back and the woman sits on top of him. Woman on top is liked by those women who have to rub her clitoris on her man’s abdomen in order to have an orgasm.
Most all other positions are variations of the main three. The important thing to remember is that sexual position does NOT bring out the sexual potential in her. It has to do with many other things.
Certainly, during intercourse, be sure to talk dirty to her. Concentrate on her, and it will distract you from your own pleasure. For effective ways to talk dirty to her, see my audio CD: The Art OfSexy Dirty Talk .
Taoist Thrusting
I cannot say enough about Taoist Thrusting. It is extremely exciting for the woman. You absolutely need to be doing this.
It is actually called "The Nine Steps of the Taoist Thrust Method." Its origin is in ancient Taoist sexuality. It was further refined by the seventh-century physician Li Tung-hsuan Tzu. It will drive her crazy.
When you enter her, slowly slide all the way in, then pull almost all the way out, and stop. Count 9 short strokes of an inch and a half penetration, then one long stroke. Then count 8 short and two long. Then 7 and three, and so on, until you do 1 short and 9 long. Then start over again. Be sure not to pull out so far as to loose the vacuum.
I know it sounds funny to have to count while having intercourse, but I assure you, it will be worth it.
Beginner’s Tantra
This is a very basic layman’s introduction to Tantric sex that can be done without practicing a long series of complicated rituals.
This exercise assumes that your woman is vaginally orgasmic.
Take care of that first.
In Tantra, the goal is to extend the orgasm without “falling over the edge.” Tantra also brings both people in touch with each other’s “energy.”
Whether energy is real or not is not part of this discussion. But for this discussion, assume that the concept of “energy” can be used to model certain phenomenon.
In order to extend the orgasm, Tantra requires three things:
Allow the sexual pleasure to travel from the genitals, up through the torso, and into the head.
Allow the sexual pleasure to fill the entire body while at the same time allowing the entire body to remain completely relaxed.
Maintain the ecstasy indefinitely.
This is similar to what I described in “The Welcomed Method.” You tell your woman to remain relaxed, and that the more relaxed she becomes, the more pleasure she feels, and the more pleasure she feels, the more relaxed she becomes, etc.
But in this, use the deep spot and a slight variation on the narration. Use the deep spot in order to associate vaginal stimulation to the Tantric narration so that she can more easily do this again later in intercourse.
Have your woman lie on her back with her legs straight but slightly separated. This will prevent her leg muscles from getting tired, which would distract her.
Make sure that she is very relaxed.
Then gently massage her deep spot. As she begins to get aroused, and possibly starting to hold her breath, tell her to relax and to breathe
normally. Make sure she completely relaxes. If she doesn’t, then slow down the stimulation and remind her again.
Then as you continue the stimulation, say to her: “Let the pleasure fill your entire body, and as it does, it completely relaxes your entire body. As your body is consumed with pleasure, it only serves to relax your entire body even more.”
“As your entire body becomes
Intercourse
There are three main positions for intercourse: “missionary,” “doggy style,” and “woman on top.”
In Missionary, the woman lies on her back, and the man lies on top of her facing her. Missionary is good for intimacy. It is the best to start with.
In doggy style, the woman is on her hands and knees, and the man is on his knees behind her. Doggy style is good because it is animalistic.
In woman on top, the man lies on his back and the woman sits on top of him. Woman on top is liked by those women who have to rub her clitoris on her man’s abdomen in order to have an orgasm.
Most all other positions are variations of the main three. The important thing to remember is that sexual position does NOT bring out the sexual potential in her. It has to do with many other things.
Certainly, during intercourse, be sure to talk dirty to her. Concentrate on her, and it will distract you from your own pleasure. For effective ways to talk dirty to her, see my audio CD: The Art OfSexy Dirty Talk .
Taoist Thrusting
I cannot say enough about Taoist Thrusting. It is extremely exciting for the woman. You absolutely need to be doing this.
It is actually called "The Nine Steps of the Taoist Thrust Method." Its origin is in ancient Taoist sexuality. It was further refined by the seventh-century physician Li Tung-hsuan Tzu. It will drive her crazy.
When you enter her, slowly slide all the way in, then pull almost all the way out, and stop. Count 9 short strokes of an inch and a half penetration, then one long stroke. Then count 8 short and two long. Then 7 and three, and so on, until you do 1 short and 9 long. Then start over again. Be sure not to pull out so far as to loose the vacuum.
I know it sounds funny to have to count while having intercourse, but I assure you, it will be worth it.
Beginner’s Tantra
This is a very basic layman’s introduction to Tantric sex that can be done without practicing a long series of complicated rituals.
This exercise assumes that your woman is vaginally orgasmic.
Take care of that first.
In Tantra, the goal is to extend the orgasm without “falling over the edge.” Tantra also brings both people in touch with each other’s “energy.”
Whether energy is real or not is not part of this discussion. But for this discussion, assume that the concept of “energy” can be used to model certain phenomenon.
In order to extend the orgasm, Tantra requires three things:
Allow the sexual pleasure to travel from the genitals, up through the torso, and into the head.
Allow the sexual pleasure to fill the entire body while at the same time allowing the entire body to remain completely relaxed.
Maintain the ecstasy indefinitely.
This is similar to what I described in “The Welcomed Method.” You tell your woman to remain relaxed, and that the more relaxed she becomes, the more pleasure she feels, and the more pleasure she feels, the more relaxed she becomes, etc.
But in this, use the deep spot and a slight variation on the narration. Use the deep spot in order to associate vaginal stimulation to the Tantric narration so that she can more easily do this again later in intercourse.
Have your woman lie on her back with her legs straight but slightly separated. This will prevent her leg muscles from getting tired, which would distract her.
Make sure that she is very relaxed.
Then gently massage her deep spot. As she begins to get aroused, and possibly starting to hold her breath, tell her to relax and to breathe
normally. Make sure she completely relaxes. If she doesn’t, then slow down the stimulation and remind her again.
Then as you continue the stimulation, say to her: “Let the pleasure fill your entire body, and as it does, it completely relaxes your entire body. As your body is consumed with pleasure, it only serves to relax your entire body even more.”
“As your entire body becomes
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