How to Lose Your Virginity ...And How Not To by Shawn Wickens

always played downstairs at my house. Pretty much how it started out was like with most kids, "Let's play doctor." It stopped there for a couple weeks and we went back to just being friends. Then one day it came down to it. We’re back in my basement, that’s where Mom always sent us kids, you know, "Go down there and play." So we're down there playing around and it was me, Charity, and two of our other neighborhood friends. We had a pool table and we were playing pool or whatever. Anyway me and her got to wrestling and it led me to getting an erection. She could feel it which got her kind of curious, but also kind of scared. We were both scared, shocked. We’re still wrestling around and things and we started kissing. Then I started feeling on her and she was happy with that and now we’re both really horny.
The other couple was still in the basement and they were laughing and kissing and doing their thing. They were pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend so they were in their own corner.
Charity and I got to rubbing on each other more and then pants came off so I started rubbing it on her vagina. That got her hot and I was hot too. I'm trying to get in there she's helping me at the same time. I'm so erect and she pretty much gets the head in for me. We're both virgins, you know, so of course she’s tight. So anyway I get the head in a little bit and to make a long story short... after I got the head in after a good minute, I was done. That's it, all of it down. My virginity was broke, hers was partially broke because she experienced something, but she didn't get to climax like I did.
So we’re sitting there underneath the pool table and she's like, "Oh, wow." And we got semen everywhere and we were freaked out about that. And we're looking at each other all crazy ‘cause for one thing it's a black guy with a white female, plus she was new to the neighborhood. She had never had a black friend or even talked to a black guy before.
We were kind of distant toward each other and a couple of weeks down the road, eventually we were in the basement shooting pool again and the pants came down.
I had had a talk with my older brother and he told me to slow it down a bit to make it feel better for her. He was 18 so of course he knew. He was like, "Aw man, it happens to every male." So he gave me a little knowledge, you know slow it down, kiss on and rub on her clitoris and rub on her boobs and things. And I'm like, "Clitoris!? Wow! I'm 13." You know they gave us a little bit of sex education, but they just said how to make babies, they didn't say how to make it feel good.
So I get to rubbing on things and I'm taking his advice and I’m concentrating so much on what he told me to do, so my erection went away. I get to rubbing on her vagina and everything and I didn't know it but I found the clitoris and I felt her jump and she's like, "Huhhhh!" You know like, "Ooh, what was that?" It kind of shocked her a little bit. Body kind of clenched and shivered. Bam! New discovery... for me and her. Of course she knew what it was, it's on her body. But this was the first time she felt someone else touch it.
So now I'm rubbing on that and everything and kissing on her titties and things. It pretty much got me erect again, so I'm like, "Wow, I got to try to not bust a nut so quick like I did last time." So I get down there and I'm rubbing and I'm so erect I can't really get in cause she's so tight. I had to have her take her two fingers and try to hold her snapper open, her vagina. So she kind of opened it a little bit and I'm rubbing on there and I get the head in, and it got in a little easier this time. And she's draining on me, you know, and I'm like, "Whoa!" Once again I almost nutted. I pulled back and kind of walked away for a second from it, you know, tried to calm myself down, like I was told to.
Pretty much what my brother told me was "Shit, man, take a sandwich or a Twinkie down there. If you're gonna bust, roll over and take a bite