different environment with a different teacher, they could be calm and learn. It was me!
This point was driven home by mentors from the University of Maryland, Baltimore County, who came to observe my class as part of our certification program. Two of the faculty pulled me aside after one class.
âYou should think about changing your profession,â they said. âThis classroom is not safe for the children. This environment is not good for them. They are not learning anything.â
W HEN I WENT HOME for Christmas during my first year as a teacher, my mother took one look at me and said, âYou donât look so good.â
I had developed a conditionâwhen I scratched myself these huge, crazy red welts appeared. My roommates affectionately referred to it as âthe Itch.â My mom saw them and said, âThere is something seriously wrong with you! This is not normal.â
She took me to the doctor.
âIs there any stress in your life?â he asked. âUsually these symptoms are a sign of extreme anxiety and pressure. You should avoid that to the extent possible.â
âAre you kidding me? My entire life is stressful,â I answered.
On the way home from the doctorâs office, my mother said quietly, âDonât go back. Stay here. You werenât supposed to be a teacher anyway. You went to an Ivy League school. Cornell, for goodnessâ sake! Apply for law school in the fall and just stay with us. Youâll be fine.â
Sounded good to me. Law school rather than Harlem Park? Why not?
The way I rationalized it in my head was that my kids were not better off with me in the classroom. I told myself I wasnât quitting because I couldnât handle it; I was quitting for the good of the children.
Besides, word through the first-year TFA corps was that teachers dropped out on a regular basis. Some lasted a few weeks, some a semester, many left after the first year. Maybe I just wasnât cut out to be a teacher. I started warming to the idea.
âNo, lady,â my dad said as I was explaining my change of course. âYou are going back. Pack your bags.â
I tried to protest. But as always, my dadâs word was the last. Shang packed my bags, loaded them into the car, and sent me on my way.
W ELTS AND ALL , I returned to Baltimore an obsessed lady.
My new strategy was to throw spaghetti against the wall, hoping something would stick. I tried everything. I changed seating configurations. I tried every discipline system in the book. If one system didnât work, Iâd introduce another a few days later. The constant changes werenât good for the kids, but I was a woman possessed. I was bent on figuring out a way to be successful.
Eventually I found a seating arrangement that actually worked. Instead of having kids sit at tables, I had them sit in a big U so that I could see what everybody was doing at all times. I could put the troublemakers in the middle, too.
Harlem Park had some excellent teachers. Their students walked through the halls in quiet, straight lines. Their kids did their homework. They were quiet in class. Bertha Haywood, who had taken Tameka Tagg into her classroom for an afternoon, was perhaps the best teacher in the school. I was reluctant to bother the veteran teachers, but one day I stopped into Ms. Haywoodâs classroom after school.
âOkay,â I said. âI just donât understand that child. Tameka was wreaking havoc in my class all morning. She spends a few hours in your class, and sheâs an angel. She returns to my room, and sheâs making the class nuts again. Whatâs your secret?â
âNo secret,â she said. âThe first thing you have to do is establish your authority. Youâre the boss. They need to know that. Next, you have to keep things interesting for the kids. A classroom should be exciting for students. Every day I have one surprise planned for class that I
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